Be a Better Lover, 10 Tips to be a Better Lover (From the Man’s Perspective)
You have always had it going for you when it comes to finding great girlfriends and partners; your chemistry clicks and they fall for you time and again. You are great in bed and have been able to take each of your girlfriends to the heights of ecstasy. Your sexual exploits have been really good so far, but you still hope for more. You now want to become irresistible to girls.
How can you go about doing this? For starters, you can definitely work on your love making skills and become an even better lover than what you already are. Wondering how you can do so? Here are 10 effective tips that can help you become a better lover, not just in bed but outside it as well.
Tip 1: Respect Your Partner:
You cannot be a great lover if you do not respect your partner. If you respect the opposite sex, they will respond to your overtures that much better. Women need to be mentally stimulated before they can get physically stimulated. You can get the mental stimulation going by showing them respect. Be considerate and make them feel that they are loved and wanted.
Tip 2: Never Rush:
Women never like rush jobs; wham, bam, thank you ma’am is not how they prefer to do it. So take your time with them and never make them feel that you are rushing them into having sex with you. When both of you are relaxed you will enjoy your time in bed a lot more than if you rush things.
Tip 3: Do not Forget Foreplay:
Women take time to get warmed up. For them, sex is much more than intercourse; it is all about feeling loved and wanted. Stimulate your partner mentally and physically by working on her sensitive and erogenous zones. Touch and kiss her ears, neck, buttocks, navel, and inner thighs. You will always find these spots to be great turn-on places for your partner.
Tip 5: Explore Her Body:
For a woman, her body is her most prized possession. When you explore it fully and touch every part of her body, you will actually touch her inner being. This will make you a much more exciting lover than you can imagine.
Tip 5: Be Adventurous:
Women love it when you are adventurous. Try out different sexual positions; make love to your partner in different places. The more exciting and innovative your style, the better will be your stature as a lover.
Tip 6: Make it Last:
Learn how to control your orgasm; the best way to do so is to control your breathing. While many women can reach climax quickly, most take longer time than men. So you must make sure your orgasm does not come too quickly.
Tip 7: Murmur sweet nothings:
Do not be silent when making love. Talk sweet nothings to your partner; tell her how much you love her and share with her the pleasure you are experiencing. Call out to her by name; she will respond with much heightened pleasure.
Tip 8: Look Into Her Eyes:
There is nothing sexier than when you look into the eyes of your lover when making love to her. Her eyes clouded with desire will drive your passion to newer heights and increase the pleasure for both of you.
Tip 9: Use Love Aids:
Love aids are great ways to increase the excitement of your lover. Sensual massages using love oils and potions will set the stage for some great love making. Ignore these love aids at your own risk.
Tip 10: Bring Her to Climax:
If you have been unable to hold your orgasm till your girl reaches climax, play with her till such time as she reaches climax. Women really enjoy oral sex and a bit of extra effort on your part will easily help your partner achieve orgasm each time.